GET OUT THERE GORGEOUS... stop making excuses and lazying about. If it is really important to you then make yourself available and out there. Meet as many people as possible and make sure that you are ALWAYS dressed to kill. Never let your guard down. you never know when a potential partner is around the corner.

BE CHEERFUL AND HAPPY... People like talking to people who feel good. It's that simple. If you feel good and look cheerful, not only does research suggest you are more attractive but also you attract people to you because they want some of what you have.

GIVE HONEST COMPLIMENTS... when complementing find something you genuinely find UNIQUELY attractive about them in particular and tell them.

PRACTICE ONE WAY COMPLIMENTS... practice giving honest compliments to people you haven't met and then walk away. That gets you into the habit of doing it for the right reason... TO MAKE THEM FEEL GOOD and NOT to make you look good. Imagine that it's your job to make them feel wonderful about themselves.

MASTER YOUR SENSE OF HUMOUR... immerse yourself in watching comedians. Begin to put yourself in places and positions where you laugh often. The more you do this the more of a sense of humour you will develop about your life. The more of a sense of humour you have the more likely you'll make them feel wonderful with you. It fosters PLAYFULLNESS... a key to effective flirting.

UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN CHARM, FLIRTING and SEDUCTION and LEARN TO MASTER ALL THREE... Charm is the quality of making people like you. Flirting is the process of making people have fun with you, playfully. Seduction is the process of deliberately introducing the possibility of attraction and romance directly or indirectly. The best way to get better at these is to master your ability to get into Positive, Happy, Playful, Confident and Sexy states using your NLP skills.

KEY WORD AWARENESS... Listen for their key words. There will be words they use a lot and like. Use these words back to them occasionally to make them feel like you think like them. Also be aware of what representational system they are communicating in and use it before expanding to using all of the systems as you communicate.

LET THEM DO THEIR THING AND FEEL THEIR ROLES... Let the other person fit into their role as you fit into yours. As a lady, let yourself get in touch with your feminine side and let them get in touch with their masculine side. The more masculine a girl makes a guy feel often the more attractive he will find her. Visa versa, the more feminine a guy makes a girl feel the more attractive she will find him. When we fit into our roles and our treated in them, in the initial stages of a relationship it can be quite seductive.

DEMONSTRATE ABUNDANCE... create the impression in the other person that money is not your highest value. This will route out the gold diggers and also show you as a valuable and honourable mate. It lets people know that you are not reliant on things outside of you and creates an aura of independence and strength around you.

DON'T SETTLE... Don't settle for someone who you don't connect with simply because you'd prefer to be in a relationship than out of one. Be prepared to be alone rather than to settle. This will allow you to give off a quality of strength and self confidence that can be most attractive to people. Settling means that you live a mediocre life. Meet many people, take risks, use your nlp skills to change the way you think and feel more usefully. And have faith. Don't just try and find the right person. Focus on enjoying yourself when you go out and be open to opportunities. Let yourself be prepared to be happy alone and you'll be amaze at what the universe will do for you.