There is no easy way to get over the break up of a relationship. The following are just some suggestions which hopefully will help make things a little easier.

1) Give yourself plenty of time. Getting over a relationship takes time and is different with everyone. Don't let anyone bully you into pretending everythings fine when is isn't. Instead take all the time you need to before you feel over it. At the same time don't let this turn into years.

2) Begin to focus on all the other areas of your life: Remind yourself why you don't 'Need' a partner. Focus on really improving the different aspects of your life apart from relationships. Life is not just about being with someone... there is so much more to it than that.

3) Keep busy at work and at homes: Avoid giving yourself any time to mope and feel sorry for yourself. While it's essential to grieve and talk to people about it, keep busy as you won't notice time going by and it's a good way to get through the tough times.

4) Talk to your friends. When you go through a break-up it's valuable to remember that you have friends who are there for you. Spend time talking to your friends about how you are feeling. This will help you feel somewhat better. Don't let them convince you of any ideas they have about finding someone else unless you want to. Instead let yourself talk to them about how you feel.

5) When recounting the memories and things that make you feel bad, do your best to make them funny. There is great comedy in tragedy. The best way for you to recount the sad moments are by recounting them in an exaggerated and over the top hilarious way. That way you are training yourself to develop a useful attitude from the experience.

6) Focus on what you can learn from the experience. Every experience you go through teaches you something. They weren't meant for you for life, but the time you spent together has many lessons for you that will help you in the future. Every past relationship was necessary in order for you to be right for the next great relationship.

7) Keep your hope for the future. No matter how alone you feel or how you think you will be single for ever, remember that there will be a time that you are over it and some other people will be out there waiting for you. Always remember that there are many great people out there to meet and maybe one who will be the one for you.

8) Get yourself looking as good as ever. One thing that is really important is for you to get yourself looking as good as you cna be. Get yourself made over or get some new clothes and a new haircut... whatever will help you look and feel like a million dollars.

9) Avoid rushing into another relationship too quickly. Instead take your time and get to know people. Have fun and enjoy yourself but get to the point where you don't mind being single for a while. When you are feeling ok regardless.

10) When your ready always be open for it happening. When you are ready for a relationship be open to the possibility of it happening. Instead of setting yourself a list of characteristics you want and only focusing on one person you have your eye on, let yourself be open to the opportunity to stumble across the person of your dreams anywhere. You never know where you might meet them.