This month I want to talk about a concept we all know as your 'Hearts Desire'. Very often, we hear of this as expressing the most important thing to us that we want in life. I want to examine how we can find our hearts desire and reach that wonderful place where we feel fulfilled.

Most of life, we spend chasing after what we want and running away from what we don't. We struggle through our existence to try and get the best of life we can. meanwhile there are many people throughout the world less off than us and better off than us. Somehow we trap ourselves in comparing ourselves with others instead of truely setting our focus on manifesting our hearts desire.

When I talk about a 'Hearts Desire', the reason it is known as that is because the heart represents the core of our being and soul, where our feelings truely lie and when we talk about hearts desire we are talking about what we want more than anything else... what our soul truely craves in this life.

Finding your true hearts desire requires you to decide what in the world are you living for. Deep down, what one thing do you want that if you could have it, you would feel a contentment unlike any other, a fulfillment that would satisfy you so much you would be willing to pass away from this world into the next.

You see, what I am asking here is what is it that gets you fully and totally? What is it that you absolutely love more than anything? What is it that you dream for at night and during your day dreams? Is it love? Is it freedom? Is it a great family? Is it the job of your dreams? Is it a mixture of these?

When you truely start to ask big questions, you will get big answers. Far too often, we concern ourselves with the little things... the small goals we have... the things we want to buy... the things we want to own... we fail to realise that it is in what we do, who we connect with and what we become that our real hearts desire can be fulfilled.

Finding your hearts desire presupposes that a hearts desire exists for everyone. I believe it does. As a human being we learn to have wants and needs. We learn to accept our 'lot' and some of us learn that we can improve it. But even those who haven't learned that yet, still deep inside they have a big want... a want for something in their life that would make them whole.

To find it, you need to answer these questions that I ask you above and allow yourself to ask what would it take for you to get your own personal hearts desire.

Now you won't always find the 'thing' that you search for but you can always find the feeling that the 'thing' gives you. If your hearts desire is a particular person that you are in love with, for example, although you can't guarantee you will get them, you can guarantee that should you go after the feeling that you are looking for... TRUE LOVE, you can achieve it.

So, find out what is it that you crave more than anything... what feeling is it.... and remember that you have had a taste of this feeling before (otherwise you wouldn't know that you wanted it)... and with this taste, it means you can taste it once more fully and completely.

Your only live this life once. You are born and you die after only a short amount of time. While you exist, decide not to limit yourself to the small pleasures in life. Dream bigger than you have before. Let yourself commit to the concept that life can be just like a fairytale and then live every moment towards making it a happy one. As long as you never give up on this and come what may you continue to follow your hearts desire, you will be able to say of your life 'I lived a life that is full'.